tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.comments2023-07-18T13:35:27.239+01:00New(ish) To SpankingElianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comBlogger2109125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-65061407596590635892012-01-29T16:53:57.507+00:002012-01-29T16:53:57.507+00:00It's always interesting when one's play ta...It's always interesting when one's play tastes change. I went through a period of not being able to ask anyone to play at parties - for fear of rejection - and do still sometimes find parties pretty hard going (and, ultimately, depressing, for various different reasons). <br /><br />All I can really say is that it's a delight playing with you when you are in the mood to do so, whether at parties or in private.<br /><br />And it's lovely to see you posting here again :-) Don't stay away too long?!!Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-16657098751003757302011-09-27T14:21:21.227+01:002011-09-27T14:21:21.227+01:00Im quite sure that there is a differentce between ...Im quite sure that there is a differentce between the number of knickers kinky and non-kinky girls possess. I wonder how do you plan to compare that? ;)<br /><br />Actually, maybe we need comparison between spanko and non-spanko girls? After all nothing makes you want to buy new panties more than knowing someone might want to pull them down ;)Kami Robertsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079738972724702917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-46364075684914861132011-09-22T04:17:08.275+01:002011-09-22T04:17:08.275+01:00Wow, I rank surprisingly high even among kinky wom...Wow, I rank surprisingly high even among kinky women, yet I have less than 1/3 the number of knickers you do!<br /><br />Time to throw some of the older ones out!Indyhttp://innocentindy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-57542310960391311762011-09-15T19:15:06.063+01:002011-09-15T19:15:06.063+01:00Lovely post. And, of course, everyone you write ab...Lovely post. And, of course, everyone you write about in the post is incredibly darn lucky to know you.Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-57904436696891548472011-09-12T10:37:08.662+01:002011-09-12T10:37:08.662+01:00I'll forgive you putting this damn song in my ...I'll forgive you putting this damn song in my head! <br /><br />It's lovely to see such a positive post: you're right we need to remember and celebrate ll the good things in life and in kink.<br /><br />And of all the things you mention the friendship group and trusted play partners are my favourite things :)EmmaJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-38712023508431154272011-09-11T22:47:28.665+01:002011-09-11T22:47:28.665+01:00What a lovely list.
I like... hearing that people...What a lovely list.<br /><br />I like... hearing that people I care for, trust and love playing with have had naughty dreams, and contemplating when we might use them as the basis for a scene ;-)Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-37087080819871530702011-08-16T19:05:41.808+01:002011-08-16T19:05:41.808+01:00Even brief scenes with you are lovely. Glad to see...Even brief scenes with you are lovely. Glad to see your kink coming back - don't rush it or feel under pressure, just enjoy it as it returns. Hugs xAbel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-40374518361486464722011-08-15T22:08:09.759+01:002011-08-15T22:08:09.759+01:00Very glad to hear it; you have enough stess at the...Very glad to hear it; you have enough stess at the minute missy! Let's hope our new found chilled vibes continue xxEmmaJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-56045330500278252302011-08-15T10:55:31.740+01:002011-08-15T10:55:31.740+01:00Yay! Glad for you sweetie xxYay! Glad for you sweetie xxRebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08928330882168974318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-45768524587449808272011-07-24T22:06:05.473+01:002011-07-24T22:06:05.473+01:00It was a lovely party, thank you for having me ove...It was a lovely party, thank you for having me over! And I maintain that a giant wooden spoon is fair retribution for the FOUR spoons you gave me for my birthday. And they were used a lot harder than your giant spoon was!Irelynn Logeennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-7381786286968654192011-07-24T22:01:03.723+01:002011-07-24T22:01:03.723+01:00See, I can choose *nice* implements!!See, I can choose *nice* implements!!Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-31592958643324226152011-07-13T21:13:52.235+01:002011-07-13T21:13:52.235+01:00you have loads of friends who are more interested ...you have loads of friends who are more interested in making sure you have a great party than spanking that bottom of yours.... <br />try not to worry, you...<br />sixotbAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-63841588401260567752011-07-12T14:32:03.063+01:002011-07-12T14:32:03.063+01:00Aww, I'd offer to come and take your birthday ...Aww, I'd offer to come and take your birthday spankings for you, but previous experience suggests that wouldn't help at all...Indyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11949593044223905786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-17279059447923814532011-06-18T18:52:28.274+01:002011-06-18T18:52:28.274+01:00Sounds like you had a fab time! For people who don...Sounds like you had a fab time! For people who don't claim to be particularly switchy, I seem to hear about you and Sarah spanking people an awful lot. Although now I come to think of it, maybe it has mostly been each other!<br /><br />I want a normal holiday with a fellow kinkster now, damnit. Last one was two years ago and we only managed to play once!Pandorahttp://pandorablake.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-10708956295558910782011-06-18T15:23:13.751+01:002011-06-18T15:23:13.751+01:00Yay! Such fun reading about what was a very fun ho...Yay! Such fun reading about what was a very fun holiday, my one regret (apart from 2 supermarkets being out of Toblerone) is that we didn't go into the My Uniform shop, I really did like the look of the maid outfit, and even if it had led me into all kinds of cleaning and dusting dilemmas I'd have bought it :-)<br />Thanks for being such a great holiday companion xxxSarahnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-46645005580458682012011-06-18T09:59:40.838+01:002011-06-18T09:59:40.838+01:00I think they must be some form of punishment knick...I think they must be some form of punishment knickers..... Ouch....<br /><br />Or they could be selling sheaves of corn (to be made into a messy flogger)or a mess of hair (either to be made into a flogger) <br /><br />More seriously; likely that they have used a slang word from somewhere like Australia (very common)!beanpolenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-63776616879901850162011-06-17T08:46:40.433+01:002011-06-17T08:46:40.433+01:00Ah yes... whoops ;-) For some reason that counted...Ah yes... whoops ;-) For some reason that counted in my mind as trips in the UK - because we didn't fly :-DElianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-21254832017662763852011-06-16T23:44:43.738+01:002011-06-16T23:44:43.738+01:00Excuse me, you've never been on holiday with a...Excuse me, you've never been on holiday with a kinky person? What was Northumberland, then, a hard slog down the mine? :-P<br /><br />"Undeawear shocks" - Laaaawl.Haronhttp://spankingwriters.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-56302880935790488482011-06-08T20:46:42.934+01:002011-06-08T20:46:42.934+01:00Awww, thank you - I am deeply flattered by such a ...Awww, thank you - I am deeply flattered by such a kind post.<br /><br />From my perspective - yes: care, thought and proper planning really are keys. But if the girls aren't enjoying themselves - because they don't feel that their preferences / limits / 'foibles' are being respected - then I wouldn't enjoy the scene myself. So I guess there's a degree of self-interest (and with some girls, self-preservation!) involved in it, too!Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-74272566912476062992011-06-08T12:28:49.164+01:002011-06-08T12:28:49.164+01:00This is spot on, and it's lovely of you to wri...This is spot on, and it's lovely of you to write it. Historical/unfair roleplay that involves being given genuine tasks to complete is particularly rife for this sort of thing. Another reason I was so very very impressed with Lucy and Amy at Finishing School!Pandora Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14379384317906645783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-26820279323335664772011-06-07T00:45:23.187+01:002011-06-07T00:45:23.187+01:00I was thinking along the same lines as I've be...I was thinking along the same lines as I've been writing up a series of posts on the Lowewood Boarding School weekend, and thinking in general about my two weeks in the UK. I played with at least four excellent tops while I was there, all with quite different styles. You're absolutely right about the difficulty of managing any scene that pushes limits, never mind a group scene. It brings home just how much trust there must be between players in scenes like that-- and that the top has to be able to trust the bottom just as much as the bottom has to trust the top.Indyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11949593044223905786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-25540864358837438792011-06-07T00:41:40.646+01:002011-06-07T00:41:40.646+01:00Like Bonnie, I've found my level of interest t...Like Bonnie, I've found my level of interest to be cyclical. We all have so many different facets that make up our whole selves: work, kink, friends, personal responsibilities, and all of our other hobbies and interests. <br /><br />For one to stay so dominant in our lives, it would seem to necessitate giving up or permanently scaling some of the others. In terms of the overall balance of our lives, that seems to be unsustainable.<br /><br />Will I ever feel quite like I did just before and after my very first spanking? No, probably not. But I do find that there's always something new to experience or to fantasize about. Sometimes those fantasies/experiences are top on my mind and other times they take a back seat to my other obligations, but they're always lurking, ready for their time in the spotlight to come around again.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12210722874586863803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-89781042365102506522011-06-07T00:33:33.819+01:002011-06-07T00:33:33.819+01:00I'm rather in awe of all of the work that tops...I'm rather in awe of all of the work that tops put in to setting the scene - not just for large group play like you've described, but also for smaller every day ones as well. <br /><br />But you're right, we shouldn't go on about it too long or they'll get a bit full of themselves ;)<br /><br />EmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-16020049991631695552011-06-06T22:28:45.476+01:002011-06-06T22:28:45.476+01:00Nice homage there Eliane. Quite right you are abou...Nice homage there Eliane. Quite right you are about the challenges faced by tops, especially in a group scene like retro school play. Whoever said this was a complicated psychological game was right about the "complicated" bit at least!<br /><br />Karl Friedrich GaussAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-2942578357635881712011-06-01T12:20:54.989+01:002011-06-01T12:20:54.989+01:00I can't help thinking about kitchen tables at ...I can't help thinking about kitchen tables at this point... <br /><br />;-)Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.com