tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post1399730925068102165..comments2023-07-18T13:35:27.239+01:00Comments on New(ish) To Spanking: DropElianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-85960262910438097832010-10-31T02:52:50.657+00:002010-10-31T02:52:50.657+00:00http://www.cafepress.com/addictivedesigns.47787998...http://www.cafepress.com/addictivedesigns.477879988Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-74613156780881559342010-10-28T10:08:53.029+01:002010-10-28T10:08:53.029+01:00Abel- there is *nothing* wrong with McDonalds.
...Abel- there is *nothing* wrong with McDonalds. <br /><br /><br />I definately get it. More when I've been being submissve as opposed to being a bottom (which for me a very different.)<br /><br />I think it can be a little of both, on the endorphins vs anticlimax thing. When I was nannying I used to get it a lot worse because I hated my job so much. Going back to work on a Monday morning after an amazing weekend was seriously painful. <br /><br />It's an interesting question, one I'd like to give more thought to, but sadly I've got to go to my bikini wax!Scarlett De Winterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04292438752897335001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-73173753935420435462010-10-27T22:40:18.828+01:002010-10-27T22:40:18.828+01:00I get it too. I used to think that for me, what wi...I get it too. I used to think that for me, what with being alone for so long, it was a natural part of suddenly being surrounded by people all the time, and then suddenly being alone again. As you said, just coming down from all the fun I had that weekend. And I think there's some truth in that; I feel it too when I've not played at all during that weekend, though perhaps not as much.<br /><br />For me, I just wallow in self pity for a few hours, perhaps watch a feel-good movie or eat something I really like, and then just get on with life. I've not ever experienced it lasting for more than one or two days, so perhaps I'm lucky in that aspect. But as for the "is it worth it" question: definitely! With the highs come the lows is what I've always been told. It is the way it is, and I wouldn't want to miss out on all the good stuff just because it might make me feel a bit sad and tearful after. :-)Irelynn Logeenhttp://contact@irelynnlogeen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-55143221583049752932010-10-27T21:45:05.399+01:002010-10-27T21:45:05.399+01:00Well, it must be worth it or we would never play a...Well, it must be worth it or we would never play again!! But yes, i do take a steep tumble after heavy play and as Harriet says, it's often on the second day. i find too that if the setting had been very emotional, intense or sexual, then the "recoil" is much worse than from merely playing-at-spanking, however hard. And i think it IS partly chemical, sometimes you hardly know why you are crashing and then remember the severe play that went before. But yes, it's worth it!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-59638391238392615922010-10-27T20:58:58.357+01:002010-10-27T20:58:58.357+01:00I certainly experience 'drop', although as...I certainly experience 'drop', although as a top, I don't see it as being chemical (endorphins), more just the inevitable mental re-adjustment to being back in the boring vanilla world, after the highs of wonderful kinky play.<br /><br />Take this week. I'm stuck in a far-from-wonderful (albeit supposedly 4*) hotel on a commercial development outside Milan. There's nowhere decent to eat (yes, one night I did go to McD's). And certainly, on Monday/Tuesday, I felt very low - contrasting being here on my own with the enjoyment of a wonderful weekend with Emma Jane.<br /><br />Is that kink-related, some sort of special experience we get having played and had fun? I think not. I think, for me, it's just the contrast between fun vs. the mundane, between being with loved ones vs. travelling alone, between having time for me vs. having to travel and earn money, between the comforts and familiarity of home / England vs. the unknown /uncertainties of being abroad.<br /><br />But OMG, the drop is a price worth paying for the highs...Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-25333261229127733472010-10-27T19:17:30.874+01:002010-10-27T19:17:30.874+01:00I definitely have it, and it pisses me off. I tho...I definitely have it, and it pisses me off. I thought for a while that I was sort of self-inducing it, by expecting it to happen. Until it snuck up on me, like a period, and I realised that I was feeling shit, and didn't know why. Then I realised it was two days after an intense scene, and it must therefore be drop. (It's always two days, never the next day).<br /><br />I agree with you though, that it's an acceptable price to pay! I wish I'd read this before I wrote the entry I've just posted. Because I've just clicked that the reason I haven't been playing is probably because some part of my subconscious has known that inviting a drop when I'm already exhausted, overworked and emotional is a bad plan. So yes, actually, sometimes it's too big a price.<br /><br />Wow, that was long and incoherent - sorry!<br /><br />f_tHarriethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13984164217086257804noreply@blogger.com