tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post3758542082873971250..comments2023-07-18T13:35:27.239+01:00Comments on New(ish) To Spanking: Punishment From A Top's PerspectiveElianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-38630096545792521692009-07-13T06:51:44.928+01:002009-07-13T06:51:44.928+01:00Thank you for the thoughts everyone - it's alw...Thank you for the thoughts everyone - it's always so interesting reading everyone else's take on this.Elianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-48621402845028811192009-07-10T19:24:11.933+01:002009-07-10T19:24:11.933+01:00An attempt at a response
http://masterfulstrokes....An attempt at a response<br /><br />http://masterfulstrokes.blogspot.com/2009/07/punishment-from-tops-perspective.htmlMaster Retephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04311695282682721027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-39374436546193159262009-07-10T16:42:27.257+01:002009-07-10T16:42:27.257+01:00I am a top who is in a discipline relationship, wh...I am a top who is in a discipline relationship, who follows your blog and who would comment. <br /><br />Angie has certainly caught some of the dynamic as I would experience it.<br /><br />You have opened the window between "role play" and "role" which I have touched on in my blog, and, if you don't mind (a not very toppy sentiment), I will think this over and perhaps post a blog of my own. I'll let you know when its done.Master Retephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04311695282682721027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-9129895612826769262009-07-10T14:40:15.081+01:002009-07-10T14:40:15.081+01:00Dear Eliane,
I have a pretty good idea about this...Dear Eliane,<br /><br />I have a pretty good idea about this, as I've seen this question asked before, and so had asked Jack.<br /><br />Now, I am in a domestic discipline marriage, but he also spanks me for good girl spankings as well.<br /><br />Whether for the lesser or major problems, even if he is put out with me, he says he sure doesn't mind seeing my bare bottom over his lap, even if he isn't happy with me.<br /><br />With more serious offenses, thats easier to answer. He says in his mind, he is thinking, 'alright young lady, wanted this, you got it.'<br /><br />And, that what he feels isn't so much revenge, as say, 'satisfaction' that I am getting what I have coming to me, that my attitude is changing again, that I'm remembering who is in charge, and also, that I'm paying for my crime.<br /><br />For lesser things that he needs to deal with, he doesn't look at it like a chore, but more as just an aspect of our marriage. Its something I need, when I mess up, both to feel better about myself, and so I don't get even more out of control, so he sees it as helping me, and our relationship.<br /><br />And, he knows that post spanking I'm all sweet again, the way I should be.<br /><br />AngieAngiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01428771405961258876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-60895314596709252142009-07-10T07:44:08.041+01:002009-07-10T07:44:08.041+01:00I can help out here I think - because I have done ...I can help out here I think - because I have done something similar myself.<br /><br />I've been trying to diet for a while. I hope that He Who Must Be Obeyed would help me, but I know he doesn't like seriously punishing me for real life things. So I asked The Lover instead. Who started off well, reluctantly gave me some quite serious punishments when I needed them - and then we tailed off. Because he doesn't like thrashing me seriously either. It's not a turn on. It just makes him feel very sad and he has to steel himself to do it.<br /><br />So I've given up on that as well. And now I have to find the willpower from somewhere to do it on my own. Sigh. So on paper, it's hot, but in real life...well, it's never worked for me.Jessicahttp://www.bendoverjessica.co.uknoreply@blogger.com