tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post8254141234271584838..comments2023-07-18T13:35:27.239+01:00Comments on New(ish) To Spanking: Three Types Of PlayElianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-43976075687771673592010-02-02T13:37:38.895+00:002010-02-02T13:37:38.895+00:00Eliane, sometimes what we do has to be real, to fu...Eliane, sometimes what we do has to be real, to fully reach our depths.<br />You explain that very well.<br />So you write Lucinda!<br />Warm hugs,<br />Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-20961703133473727252010-02-02T12:40:03.907+00:002010-02-02T12:40:03.907+00:00Graham, we're not supposed to be nice to her. ...Graham, we're not supposed to be nice to her. Really, she said so. But I agree!Indyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11949593044223905786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-42592571528970337452010-02-02T05:44:38.608+00:002010-02-02T05:44:38.608+00:00Eliane, it just puts a big smile on my face to rea...Eliane, it just puts a big smile on my face to read about you having happy and rewarding experiences. Does anybody deserve them more than you? So... go you, and thanks for sharing : )Grahamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14627332220419275106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-72745558311377527232010-02-02T00:05:34.451+00:002010-02-02T00:05:34.451+00:00That's a very interesting post. Can the role-p...That's a very interesting post. Can the role-play characters you create can get in the way of what you want to feel?<br /><br />I've played several scenes recently with girls who chose rebellious, in-your-face characters, and found in the end that their chosen personas got in the way. For a bottom, this game we play is played to lose, and the payback comes when you're conquered. Sometimes a character choice can get in the way of that.<br /><br />Then there's the flip side. I used to want to play "nice guys": caring tops, who gave for-your-own-good spankings, chaste and chastening. But that can be limiting: a "nice guy" can't go beyond what's "appropriate". More recently I've found it liberating (and very hot) to play nastier characters, who are not afraid to take advantage in a scene. If I'm a bad man, I'm allowed to be abusive.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HHHenry Higginshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11351558169910277035noreply@blogger.com