tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post9136941468217681824..comments2023-07-18T13:35:27.239+01:00Comments on New(ish) To Spanking: Letting It OutElianehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-1292927388850044472009-05-05T06:17:00.000+01:002009-05-05T06:17:00.000+01:00Abel, I'd echo Kami's comments. I think sometimes...Abel, I'd echo Kami's comments. I think sometimes it IS just for the emotional release. I agree it could be disconcerting when playing with someone new, or if the "tone" had not been leading that way. However, I was playing with a friend who knows me quite well, so he recongnised it for what it was, but also I was still communicating, (through all the lovely snot!) and kept saying things like "I don't know why I'm crying, it's not like it's hurting", so I think he was fairly confident that the root of it wasn't something that he'd done. Well, or at least something that he'd done wrong!Elianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-11716322351821705792009-05-04T21:33:00.000+01:002009-05-04T21:33:00.000+01:00No offence Abel but I'm surprised you find it so p...No offence Abel but I'm surprised you find it so puzzling, I thought you would be used to that.<br /><br />I mean, you should know that tears are not always becuase you wacked someone too hard ;) or that there are sick people who use tears as one of the indicators that the scene was really good and intense (pointing finger at herself)<br /><br />But I suppose it's easy for me to say that, no one ever cried because I hit her/him too hard so I probably can't really relate to feeling you and other might have ;)Kami Robertsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079738972724702917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-8392495541592172022009-05-04T06:20:00.000+01:002009-05-04T06:20:00.000+01:00Maybe they should make caning available on the NHS...Maybe they should make caning available on the NHS for anyone stressed?!<br /><br />I wonder - was it very disconcerting for whoever was caning you? I mean, when similar things have happened during scenes I've been playing, I've ended up rather puzzled (and quite mortified) at the time the tears start to flow. ("I didn't think I whacked her *that* hard", and worrying that the girl wasn't enjoying the scene or I had done something wrong).Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-64244863086048201432009-05-02T23:03:00.000+01:002009-05-02T23:03:00.000+01:00Welcome darling in the wonderful world when tears ...Welcome darling in the wonderful world when tears flow bringing peacefulness with your own emotions. Isn't it just great? :)Kami Robertsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079738972724702917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-83207488134706770502009-05-02T21:42:00.000+01:002009-05-02T21:42:00.000+01:00What a good thing you had the opportunity to let g...What a good thing you had the opportunity to let go in a safe and secure way: yes, Emma Jane is right - there was certainly healing happening there. Great that it happened! Tension not allowed to be released puts anyone well on the way to a breakdown! Far better a spanking (and caning) any day.Winchesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07386759747441682416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6174594026385544744.post-89073815477816979222009-05-01T21:14:00.000+01:002009-05-01T21:14:00.000+01:00Wow, that sounds wonderfully cathartic. I hope you...Wow, that sounds wonderfully cathartic. I hope you feel better, I understnad what it can be like to have so much emotion built up inside. While spanking would be my number one outlet for it, I can also recommend boxing ;)<br /><br />(BTW good luck on Sunday!!)EmmaJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.com