I probably wibble on far too much about how lucky I am, but I'm about to again, so feel free to skip on to another post.
I had some friends to stay last night. They are dear and close friends, and the occasion was a celebration of us having known each other for ten years. It was even sweeter as the opportunities to get together like that nowadays are fewer than they were.
We had a great evening reminiscing, trying to list out all the trips that we've been on together over the years (which took a while, there's been a few!), looked through old photographs, decided that we all looked a lot younger ten years ago, and generally had a really nice time.
What made it really wonderful though is that the evening progressed, the talk became more frank, and we started talking about what was going on in certain specific aspects of our lives. Now both these friends know about my kink. One of them was the first person I came out to, and asked advice from, as she's kinky herself, the other I told about six months later, when I was really starting to meet people and actually play. They have both been endlessly supportive, and more than that, interested in the new interests in my life. I think we pushed it to a new level last night though – I ended up both showing them various photos of my marked bottom, and then showing them spanking porn on my PC!
Many of you would probably think that should friends photos of your cane marks is stepping over the line rather, and of course it would have been if forced them to look, but in the end it was pretty much the other way round, they forced me to show them! But even though I'm not going to make a habit of showing those sorts of photos to them, it's great to know that I can, that they aren't offended, or disturbed, and that we can have the conversations about anything, be it a trip to Spain seven years ago, or my play date the week before. For me it means our friendship will only get deeper as the years go on, as there's not need for any of us to keep secrets from each other.
As you can see, I am very lucky to have friends like those, who know both my past and my present. Pickle and Pornstar, you rock :-D
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3 comments:
Yay for you. Though with nicknames like those, they were halfway there already.
If you call them Pickle & Pornstar to us, what do you call us to them???!
Such a lovely evening, and so thoughtful of P & P to provide so much entertainment for us. I have to admit, though, I'm glad none of my vanilla friends have asked to see pictures of my marked bottom...
Awww sounds like such fun. And you are very lucky to have them :)
Having met Pornstar (or was it Pickle) and had a lovely open chat I have no problem imagining them looking at pron!!
And I like these posts where we make time to acknowledge all the good in our lives xx
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