Sunday, 11 September 2011

Raindrops On Roses....

Etc. etc.
Well, I'm always going on about what I *don't* like, so I thought for once I'd think about some of my favourite things!

So what do I like when it comes to all things spanking?

I like nice, long hand spankings with lots of build up and rubbing of cheeks.
I like straps that thud but don't sting.
I like floggings. Soft ones. Hard ones. Ones that wake me up. Ones that send me into a wonderful stupor. Ones that involve parts of me other than my bottom. In fact I love floggings.
I like being embarrassed with people I trust.
I like being made to cry. Some days I just really, really need that.
I like my head being messed with a little bit in a scene.
I like the relationship that builds up over time when you play with someone, how trust deepens to allow you to play in more intense ways.
I like that there are certain women that I rather enjoy whacking, and who also, and more importantly, let me whack them!

Most of all, I love the fact that I have such a fabulous network of friends who are there with spankings, love, support and friendship.


Abel1234 said...

What a lovely list.

I like... hearing that people I care for, trust and love playing with have had naughty dreams, and contemplating when we might use them as the basis for a scene ;-)

EmmaJane said...

I'll forgive you putting this damn song in my head!

It's lovely to see such a positive post: you're right we need to remember and celebrate ll the good things in life and in kink.

And of all the things you mention the friendship group and trusted play partners are my favourite things :)