I was supposed to be elsewhere tonight, but for various reasons did not manage to make it out of the house. Prior to retiring for the night I was chatting on line with a friend and we got onto the subject of who was "the best" spanker. The original question was around spanking film producers, but as I've not watched a huge amount of movies, I wasn't that able to comment. It did get me wondering about what would constitute "the best" in a spanker. Of course it's a very subjective thing, and for each person their best spanker would have different qualities. To generalise though, I think that the following is true: the best for each individual spankee is the one who pushes your buttons in the right way, who understands what really makes you tick when it comes to kink, who takes into account your limits, your desires, your quirks. They will delight in pushing you to your perceived limit, and maybe a little bit further than you thought you could go. They will make you expect the expected and then spring the unexpected on you.
That's my take on "The Best", anyway. What's yours?
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