Such a sexy word... I was watching a TV programme (on my ipod at work...!) today and in it the lead male character kissed the lead female, and then answered her request with a simple one word answer: "No". Sounds simple, but it made me go weak at the knees.
Of course fantasy is a little different to reality. The idea of someone taking me on, standing up to me and having the guts to stand up to me and tell me "no" is a huge turn on. In role play, or in a scene it's fine, but in real life if someone tries to do it to me I tend to react rather badly. Even though I'm relatively introverted, circumstances through the years have turned me into the person who is often a leader within a group. I'm the bossy one (in a nice way, I hope!) who organises everything, and often gets my own way. If there's something I really want, or want to do, woe betide the person who tries to stop me.
"No" might be sexy in fantasy, but I have a bit of an issue with it in real life. Maybe I just haven't met the guy who can tell me "no" in the right way!
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